*sighing* Sometimes I can't stand human beings! And don't talk any "Human After All" shit to me because I AM Human After All and I can be angry with you fucks every once and awhile, right? Every time I looked up today I had to straighten someone out, about one thing or another, and give them some direction. This sorta thing can be quite fatiguing which led me to taking a long nap, and this is why I am up now blogging -- I can't sleep worth a lick. Insomnia. :-/
It's quite befuddling to me why people get angry when you point out behavior that is obvious to everyone accept them. I'm getting messages, IM's, texts, Tweets, and smoke signals asking me to reply to a certain email that I received. A couple of the fellas are like "Damn, I would love to know what the incoming email was about, Pat ... slim is all over the place!". My sister and cousin said this was "creepy and obsessive" respectively. Because the thing is, when the email came in I replied that I was busy and I would get back with answers as soon as I could. I finally replied with the answers old girl was seeking and let her know, in a nutshell, to chill out I was busy at the time. You KNOW she took it the wrong way, right? I am caring and empathetic towards ALL people ... I really am. But, in 2011, I have very little time for pointless understandings. She's a wonderful and funny person but gee whiz! Am I wrong?
Right after Turkey Day -- I can't recall where I was exactly -- I overheard a conversation between a young couple which ended up turning quite volatile. If I remember correctly the young cat was hitting the strip joint downtown every Thursday(which was pay day), with this work posse, watching those asses shake over a plate of chicken fingers. My man! Youth is a wonderful and amusing thing, isn't it? So, Cutie Pie, wasn't too thrilled about his patronage of the establishment and said he was cheating. Yeah, I remember, I was in Chipotle's! Anyway, Young Cat said he was just having some lunch with the fellas and "as long as he wasn't fucking or touching" all should be fine back at the ranch. Cutie Pie exploded. The rest isn't really important or pertinent to where I am going with this, it just made me think "What exactly is cheating in these days and times, Pat?" Hmm... In brief:
- If you feel you have to keep things secret from your girlfriend, wifey, fiancée, wife, you're basically sneaking around. The jump-off doesn't count.
- PRIVATE relationship statuses isn't cheating; it's maintaining discretion. (I will touch on this later)
- Going outside of your relationship for sexual excitement is cause for your woman's concern.
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